Words of An Ordinary Person

SESUNGGUHNYA dalam kehidupan kita ini sama ada kita bahagia atau derita, tenang atau tertekan, semuanya bermula daripada kawalan minda. Jika kita pandai mengawal fikiran melalui minda, emosi akan terjaga, dan akhirnya tindakan akan terkawal. Walaupun, kita berada dalam situasi yang tidak menenangkan (negatif), kawalan fikiran (secara positif) akan menenangkan emosi (menjadi positif). Usahlah kita menjadi orang yang dipengaruhi oleh persekitaran tetapi, jadilah kita orang yang positif, yang mempengaruhi orang yang negatif dan persekitaran negatif menjadi positif. Analoginya, jadilah kita seperti ikan di lautan, tidak menjadi masin biarpun sejak kecil hidup di dalam air laut yang masin. Janganlah kita menjadi ikan di darat, setelah digaramkannya maka masinlah ikan tersebut. Ingatlah, kita gembira dan tenang bukan sebab dunia ini betul, tetapi dunia ini menjadi betul sebab kita gembira dan tenang. Dengan kawalan fikiran, kita akan cepat membetul kesilapan, malah dapat mengawal perasaa

Life is a journey filled with lessons, hardships, heartaches, joys, celebrations and special moments that will ultimately lead us to our destination, our purpose in life. The road will not always be smooth; in fact, throughout our travels, we will encounter many challenges. Some of these challenges will test our courage, strengths, weaknesses, and faith. Along the way, we may stumble upon obstacles that will come between the paths that we are destined to take. In order to follow the right path, we must overcome these obstacles. Sometimes these obstacles are really blessings in disguise, only we don't realize that at the time. Along our journey we will be confronted with many situations, some will be filled with joy, and some will be filled with heartache. How we react to what we are faced with determines what kind of outcome the rest of our journey through life will be like. When things don't always go our way, we have two choices in dealing with the situations. We can

“What is the wisest choice for a personal life goal? Should a person seek self-actualization or self-realization? Perhaps neither goal is a realistic objective, especially if human beings lack free will. What I do know is that there is dark pit so deep inside myself that I must fill it. I can pad this black hole with dread or pleasure, booze or drugs, religion or vice, action or indolence, love or hatred. Alternatively, I can fill bleakness and emptiness by increasing self-awareness and ascertain my role in the world. With limited energy resources and lack of mental acuity, I might never attain a plane of higher consciousness. I fear remaining forever blocked in a state of psychological deadlock, forevermore exhibiting prolonged mental, emotional, and behavioral disorders and plagued by psychogenic abnormalities brought about from social rejection, grief, vocational lapses, and economic and marital setbacks. In a state of mental incapacity, I might lack the ability to blunt immediate p

Assalamualaikum dan Hai. Sebenarnya hari ni aku rasa macam nak tulis satu entry tapi tak tahu nak cerita pasal apa. Haha. Lepastu tetiba dapat idea untuk kongsi cerita masa aku dengan wife pergi bercuti haritu.  Okey jujurlah lepas kami kahwin haritu, kami kurang keluar jalan-jalan and luang masa di luar, bercuti apatah lagi. Maklumlah baru kahwin kan, banyak nak kena pakai duit and kami pun bukannya orang senang sangat semua benda dah ada depan mata lepas kahwin. Banyak perkara yang kena selesaikan. Kami ni memang dua-dua jenis kaki jalan, so bila tak keluar berjalan, rasa macam tak lengkap hidup ni. Even keluar lepak mana-mana tengok orang busking pun cukup dah sebenarnya, asalkan keluar. Dulu sebelum kahwin, aku sorang-sorang pun boleh jadi pergi keluar berjalan. Sampai masa tu wife aku cakap aku kena 'sindrom tak boleh duduk rumah'. So dalam bulan Sep 2018 macamtu, kami adalah discuss nak pergi bercuti sebab yelah, lama sangat dah tak berjalan / bercuti. Kononny

"Ignoring people is an art" - sometimes I believe that we have to ignore people as much as people ignoring us. Throughout my life, I have the tendency to do the "runaway" act. I always thought that people or group of people can be better, without me around. The cycles will be like that, sometimes out of control. Maybe I believe it is just a process. People come and go. A process that will keep going on, and on. People can be cruel at times. People can be selfish. We are as important as people that have something. People will care when we have that something. For example, if I have a car, I will have more friends than if I don't have a car. Maybe, other things, like printer. It is so difficult to differentiate between selflessness and selfish. In the end, I have to be grateful. I need to. As all these things are in a package. We called it - life. Credit to: Sir Dzul Azzwan (UKM)

Assalamualaikum dan Hai! Pertama sekali, aku rasa dah 4 tahun dah aku tak update apa-apa entry dalam blog ni. Last aku tulis entry pun on 18 Dec 2014 (Gila lama ah...). Masa tu pun aku masih lagi pelajar tahun ke-3 dekat UKM. Sekarang aku dah 2 tahun habis belajar. Haha. Gila berhabuk siak blog ni. Dalam 4 tahun ni, macam-macam benda dah jadi dalam hidup aku. Tapi okeylah, itu yang buat hidup aku colorful dan aku harap aku akan semakin kuat. Itu semua rahmat, nikmat, dugaan dan ujian dari Allah. Plus , bukan hidup lah kalau takda naik turun. Aku terima semuanya ^_^ So nak mulakan cerita, aku finally graduated dari UKM pada Nov 2016 dengan result tak berapa nak bagus tapi bolehlah buat cari makan lepas tu. Before grad  tu pun aku dah dapat kerja dekat sebuah accounting firm located somewhere dekat PJ. Selepas 3 bulan aku kerja sana, aku mula pasang niat untuk cari pasangan hidup. Lama juga sebenarnya aku tak fikir pasal kahwin-kahwin ni since aku pernah rasa nak give up a